Friday, February 12, 2010

Wedding Welcome Note Sample No Wedding Gifts? Not Even Money Or Shop Vouchers?

No wedding gifts? Not even money or shop vouchers? - wedding welcome note sample

My man wants to be, put a note on wedding invitations in April 2008 as follows: "No wedding - not even ask for money or vouchers, please."
I feel that (also) is our second marriage (s) and have not spend much money for the wedding, gifts of all kinds are welcome and) the gift of money (or vouchers Bank is welcomed, if only offset by the costs of marriage.

Am I wrong, the gift of cash or vouchers for the store, the feeling is beautiful, or should you with your gift idea is all about?

Be our wedding, a bar with classic and modern rock and roll theme-be hosts at home.

The couple have a son living with us: I am 10 years and 20, and both participate in a marriage asSponsor and carrier alliances.

12 comments:

Kat said...

It should not say the issue of gifts / money / records of your wedding invitations, too: "Please no gifts."

The gifts are chosen by the donor, not the recipient. If you have something good, just be grateful and thankful.

If you prefer money or gift cards are not all the gifts, and your immediate family and friends know your wishes.

Customers to make a gift to try to find what you need ... And if you need for your marriage or family, said they do not need anything, but if you see something, a map of Nice with a gift of money to his home would be much appreciated, to give.

Their wedding theme sounds fun ... Beware of aw "at home"edding. Make sure there are plenty of toilets, seats and enough room to make you feel comfortable. Most houses are not large enough for weddings, unless it's going to be just a group of 20 to 30 people.


Good luck and congratulations honey!
~ Kat

Barbara B said...

The message sounds so, so good, so terribly greedy - as if inviting guests from each member is entitled to give the emperor (which you are). I am sure this is not the message you send, but that's what I've read - especially as the additional seats to the point that the desire to sell his friend for no gifts, no address.

Please tell me which are not so selfish and greedy.


However, in the case, but it is quite reasonable for certain gifts (such as cash or vouchers to shop) to ask less demanding that you do not want gifts.

You can print on the invitation something like:

"Please, your presence is the gift you want ..."

"No gifts please - GOod wishes are all that can be desired. "

or something to that effect.

Do not worry, people always want something with a gift - nothing. But really, the anticipation of gifts (or right) does not, why invite people to a wedding - even if you are strapped for cash. The answer to this question is a marriage more modest - and not a right of entry.

SisterSu... said...

Well, your friend has good intentions, but put in the calls for "no wedding gifts or even gift cards, etc." makes it sound like he feels guilty, because even with a ceremony and ask people to visit.

I think I prefer "no gifts!" And represent nothing and accept the gifts that make the man. Some bring something if you like it or not, because doing it the right thing.

You can only, not to say that instead of something on the invitation, gifts that customers rely on to decide whether something is done to make the easiest and least uncomfortable situation that you could sit down, This way no one needs ask the questions afterwards.

Dani said...

I think it is a discrete to say .... "No-show, his mere presence is appreciated. Some people bring a gift or money anyway. Most people are uncomfortable going to a wedding empty-handed.

Proud Momma said...

Whether or not it is easy to give a gift of the customer. And the quantity and type of donation is for them too.

Tell your husband to be, what is the label difficult to make any mention of gifts at all ... to say "no gifts".

fizzy stuff said...

Strictly speaking, the invitations (it should contain or grade) never any question of gifts, either for or against the gifts.
When you spread the word, say the people and tell your family so they can spread the word.

Cupcake's Princess said...

Never mention gifts on an invitation, also to say they are not welcome. While people tend to give little gifts for a second marriage, and some may choose not to have any, many people wish for a gift as a goodwill gesture to make. If so, you should leave. It is a little more aggressive than a big thing for him presents to make. Remember that donations are always given to the wishes of the donor, not the recipient. If people choose to give a gift that they accept gracefully.

Blunt said...

Your husband is correct.

It is not proper etiquette to wait for a second wedding gifts, wedding, this is a double-second, whether the gifts should not have, and there is no register to be established. Why? Because your guests are probably the same as those who have been his first marriage, who have been invited before, therefore, not obliged to support him again. How it works. New friends and acquaintances who are not first on / at your wedding, you. When prompted, we recommend you have a furnished house and since gift cards would be a good option.

Any mention of gifts in the invitation is tasteless, except to say they are not welcome. If you do not want gifts, this information should be gADA from mouth to mouth. Some people seem Witha gifts anyway, do not worry, because some people gave him.

Good luck

vaya said...

I think it would be nice please write invitations or gifts. In this case, I would only give a gift of money as a guest. Personally, I am nothing, "even the money or vouchers for the store." That seems very challenging and some people feel bad, not at all, (I know I will).

sylvia said...

Reaction as already mentioned, the issue of gifts in the invitation is not correct according to the protocol. While I understand the intent of the HTB, and yet it is not appropriate to customers what they need and what is not ....

To this end I am satisfied with the reply that if customers want a gift you can give your favorite charity - with a warning. You may be better suited for people to know (on request) Would you receive a donation in his name to his charity. This is because everyone can have different causes for different reasons. I know, I know - love is not to offend anyone, but people tend to feel comfortable with certain charities, and remains, so that the customers decide how they spend their money.

Of course you have said that some people give him gifts. To thank them kindly and lovingly married!

Emily said...

Well, must be convinced that the addition to the invitation to the traditional rule that it is impolite to talk about it all on the invitation.
"There were no gifts" ... means that if people want to get gifts.
I have always said, do not mention all the gifts at any type of invitation.
So the thumb presses that some unknown rich relatives come back and drop ya'll for your wedding Mad amounts of money. :)

sarah jane said...

I prefer the idea to donate to a charitable organization of people like May to celebrate the day, somehow gives them a way to do it without hands as you do. I think it's a little rude saying essentially "we do not trust us to give everything in the call, people could be saved.

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